I would say to young people who are dating, if you decide to start a relationship, building trust is the first and most important step

Trust is very important in everything, not just relationships, couples and couples, knowing how to build trust is an important skill

There was a young man who finally got a sales job and worked diligently for half a year. Instead of making any progress, he failed in several major projects one after another. And his colleagues, all of them have achieved results. He couldn’t stand the pain.

In the general manager’s office, he said ashamedly that he might not be suitable for this job. “Work with peace of mind. I will give you enough time until you succeed. At that time, if you want to leave, I will not keep you.” The boss’s tolerance moved the young man very much. He thought that he should do one or two decent things before leaving. Therefore, he became more calm and thoughtful in his later work.

After a year, the young man walked into the boss’s office again. However, this time he is relaxed. He has topped the company’s sales chart for seven consecutive months and has become a well-deserved backbone of the business. It turned out that this job was so suitable for him! He wanted to know, why did the boss keep a defeated general in the first place?

“Because I am more unwilling than you.” The boss’s answer was completely beyond the young man’s expectations.

The boss explained: “I remember that when we first recruited, the company accepted more than 100 application materials. I interviewed more than 20 people, but in the end I only hired you. If I accept your resignation, I will definitely fail. I firmly believe that, Since you can gain my trust when applying for a job, you must also have the ability to be recognized by customers in your work. What you lack are opportunities and time. Rather than saying that I still have confidence in you, it is better to say that I still have confidence in myself. I believe I have not used the wrong person.”

I am that young man. From the boss, I learned a philosophy: Tolerance to others and confidence to myself can create a new situation.

So I would say to young people who are dating, if you decide to start a relationship, building trust is the first and most important step.